I supported Prop 8 for the basic reason that I cannot “condone,” by supporting the rewriting of a definition of what marriage is, a practice that I believe is harmful to my neighbor. Why would I try to pretend that a homosexual “marriage” is the same as a heterosexual marriage when the homosexual intimacy leads to a wealth of health problems (especially for men) ? In reality (apart from the Bible, which I do not live apart from myself but realize that MANY in this country do), the homosexual community is asking everyone to overlook the obvious in order to approve of something that they want (NOT NEED).
The prop does not give them any new rights….it only gives them a societal definition AND the ability to influence school children by being represented in books as a pleasant alternative to man/woman marriage. AND, it’s NOT a pleasant alternative, it’s a dangerous alternative. It is filled with high probability of disease, both physical and mental. Homosexual people already have the right to live together, to claim “domestic partners” for the sake of insurance, of work benefits, of taxing etc. Redefining a social definition that represents the majority (by far) of Americans in order for a minority of Americans to “feel better” about something that many feel is dangerous is just nonsensical.
To me it’s clear that the reason the Bible says it is not a valid way to have an intimate relationship is because it is not good for us (no surprise for the Christian….is any sin good for us? NO!).
So, in “loving my neighbor,” I respectively say to homosexuals that I do not see this way of living the same as you do and for that reason I cannot, in good conscience, vote for the definition to include your lifestyle.
If you are unaware of what diseases I am talking about google “homosexuality and health” and you will be amazed. Too much information for me to even summarize here.
For the Christian, if you take the Bible to be the word of God, then you must take every sin that it points out as dangerous, homosexuality is explicitly named.
“You shall love the Lord you God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Matthew 22:37-39